When you walk into a toy store, what do you usually see? A section for boys, and a section for girls. Now the question at hand today is should toy stores be more gender neutral, and my opinion is it doesn’t really matter to be honest. Boys have their interest and girls have theirs. It shouldn’t become a big ordeal about toys. Now if it was said that girls HAD to play with dolls, and barbie dream houses, and what-not, and that boys HAD to play with cars, and action figures, and super hero toys, then that is a totally different argument. The fact they have a toys separated for boys and girls isn’t a big deal in my opinion, it’s until they start that they don’t have a choice that they HAVE to play with what toys are in those sections based off of their gender is what the problem is. Let’s say a little girl, for example, loves to play with toy cars and monster trucks but she also has her moments when she likes to play with her dolls and things, it shouldn’t matter, toys are toys no matter who plays with them.
Kids have a very, very vivid imagination, they don’t know that certain toys are for girls and certain toys are for boys unless they were told so by an adult. Adults put the “gender” of certain toys into children’s minds. Most adults use what their kids play with as a sign to their kids liking the same gender as themselves which is absurd. If a little boy wants to play with dolls and things let him, you don’t want to force him to play with a certain toy that he doesn’t want to play with because then you run into a problem. Kids will be kids at the end of the day, Jimmy wants to play with Barbie and Ken let him, and if Janae wants to play with Superman and toy cars let her. The moral of this whole thing is let kids play with what they want to play with, and also let kids be who they want to be, because in the long run they will grow to resent you for not loving them for who they are.
What do you think?…